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I just realized another complication in the matter (assuming 3rd party guy is not a problem. I am going to pretend he doesn't exist: she did not go to his house with his parents this weekend and two weekends ago, she does not invite him over to watch jeopardy/wheel of fortune / start watching 24 out of the blue with him etc, etc. I win, regardless of how much physical contact he has made with her.)

this last friday night, before drinking, we made a rule that we actually enforced at one point when the conversation turned down a possibly dangerous road, that we were not going to discuss "important things" while intoxicated.

if/when we hang out friday night (i'm taking it for granted, i would like to think this will not depend on 3rd party guy, again, there has been nothing in terms of this guy for 6 months and only in the last 3 days has his re-appearance been made known to me, so i have NO idea if she is going to even see this guy ever again...i know she was talking to him on AIM today, but do not know nor do i want to know details) there will be alcohol involved.

"discussing things" and moving in to try to kiss her are not really distinguishable in this context right? I don't want to break our established code because i feel like forcing the decision to be made sooner than she is ready.