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I provide for me and the people close to me.
He provide for him and the people close to him.
That's just the way it works.

When you win money from a family man, you feel you're stealing from his kids ? Do something for a few kids in your life for some of the money.
You want to make an old man happy? Treat your grandpa to something nice for some of the money.

Just remember that you would never be able to be as generous to the people close to you if it wasn't for your poker winnings, that you know for sure, but you can never know for sure what any of your opponents would have done with their winnings/savings...