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Regarding tests such as the triple screen, I rejected them all the first time and again this second time around. (BTW, just 3 weeks to go.) I should note however that I have none of the risk factors that would increase the probability of a positive result on the triple screen and young enough where amnio is not an issue.

Have a conversation with Michelle about this. The bloodtests aren't instrusive like an amnio, BUT they are notorious for false positives. I have many friends who had multiple positive tests only to birth children completely free of genetic abnormalities. The stress of fearing the worst was hard for them.

My husband and I decided in advance that we weren't going to abort regardless of the outcome of the testing, and we would have plenty of time after birth to educate ourselves should our child be born with abnormalities. In addition, when we refused the triple screen our doctor ordered a level 2 ultrasound. This more detailed ultrashound will detect many abnormalities that are treatable as well as gross malformations, etc.

The triple screen test, etc. is considered completely routine, but there are reasons for avoiding it. I just wanted to mention there are some who decline it.