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I too would have been confused for a second if the dealer left 100 in front of me when facing a raise. I suppose she was assuming that you would need change, but I've never seen a dealer do that before. Whatever, that part is not a big deal.

It sounds like she was just trying to help someone she thought didn't know what was going on in the second hand, as opposed to intentionally rude. She probably thought she was trying to help, and that you were being rude to her. However, she should not have escalated it with the comment to Sirus. There was already a tense situation, and the dealer should have acted more professionally. I would have told the floor about the dealer, though I probably would have waited until a break so as not to completely piss off the rest of the table.