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It's not fair on curtains because if he knew about it but chose not to say anything, that is very different from actually doing it himself.

If he didn't know anything, there will still be a debate claiming he did, and he's in a no-win situation either way.

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Different, but not much less unethical. It is so sad that people nowadays would even think this is debatable. In the past dishonesty was unacceptable - period.

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I really hope all your friends are perfect like you apparently are, and you can hold this mirror up to yourself and all of them. Really, it's easy to say all the stuff your spewing. But if you've ever had to balance a friendship or family-relationship with a real ethical dilemma in the REAL WORLD, I don't think you'd be taliinng out of your ass like this.

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Do you really believe what you just wrote? You think honest people can't have friends? Or we haven't had to make tough ethical decisions. You must be very young? I have been in several very delicate spots before. I made one friend turn himself in and another had to stop doing what he was doing or I was turning him in. It is really quite simple. Sorry your ethics only kick in when it is not important.