Re: poker related nakedness
Dec 28
Openers Sent: 21
Openers Replied to: 9
Conversations converted to AIM: 1
Analysis: The biggest problem is obviously that I can’t convert the conversations to AIM. I personally feel that I have a 50/50 chance of meeting the girl if I can convert the conversation to AIM. The reason I have this problem is because after they reply, I don’t think it’s optimal to jump the gun and try to take the conversation to AIM right there. I prefer to say one more thing after the opener, and then mention AIM. Any thoughts on this would be appreciated.
Another thing: I have no clue what to do if the girl responds to “inside?” but logs off before we can finish our conversation. Do I even bother to talk to her again? I think bugging her shows weakness, but at the same time I haven’t built enough rapport to make her NEED to talk to me.
Here’s a classic example of my problem:
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(I responded with "What's a relaxing song that'll put me to sleep?)
oh ok. nm you? but seriously what does inside mean
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From: Me
Date: Dec 28, 2005 11:58 PM
nothing, what's up?
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From: Her
Date: Dec 29, 2005 1:46 AM
inside? what do you mean?
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From: Me
Date: Dec 28, 2005 11:34 PM
inside?
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She never responded again.
What's the standard play in these situations?
Here's one of the better conversations I had (didn't lead to AIM though)
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Her:
They are totally the opposite of that lol
no i don't have aim... well i do .... but i don't use it... i don't really like it.
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From: Me
Date: Dec 28, 2005 6:33 PM
The only songs I've heard by them are the ones on the radio. When people ask me what rock bands I like I always say them because they are really catchy. I've never heard the ENTIRE CD until now though. It's way better than I expected though. I was afraid it was gonna be super-crazy-I-wanna-kill-my-dad-and-I-luv-satan hard rock. Guess I was wrong. (whoops)
Do you have a screen name on AIM? It's so much harder to chat on myspace than it is on AIM.
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From: Her
Date: Dec 28, 2005 8:24 PM
lol
i actually like them [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
why are you embarrassed??
its prolly really ur cd... isn't it?? ..... lol..... jk...
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From: Me
Date: Dec 28, 2005 6:21 PM
I wish you wouldn't have asked. My roommate's gf left her Maroon 5 CD on the coffee table, and for some reason I had the urge to put it in my laptop. You won't tell anyone will you?
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From: Her
Date: Dec 28, 2005 8:18 PM
no i don't think so.. just watch a movie or sumthing at their house. what are you listening too??
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From: Landon
Date: Dec 28, 2005 6:11 PM
Just sitting here listening to some music. Kinda bored. You and your friends have big plans tonight?
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From: Her
Date: Dec 28, 2005 8:04 PM
just hanging out at my house till my friends get off work... you??
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From:Me
Date: Dec 28, 2005 5:59 PM
nothing, what's up?
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From: Her
Date: Dec 28, 2005 7:58 PM
what??
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From: Me
Date: Dec 28, 2005 5:56 PM
inside?
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What next?
BTW: the lead that ended up in AIM was a decent MySpace conversation, but I pwned the chick when it switched to AIM. I have much more wit, and my personality comes through easily. I can make girls feel much much more comfortable with me over AIM
Just sharing results for day 1
Villainaire
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