[Cream Soda]

I don't even know why we are discussing these two people because they are going to do what they want to regardless.

I'm not really a fan of shelling out advice, I am lucky when I figure out my own life, never mind telling other people what I think they should do with theirs.

Think back to a relationship you've had that others might not have agreed with. If anything, when people don't support me, it only distances me from them because I don't want to constantly hear the [censored]. You want to have a good time in their presence, not constantly talk about what they think is best for you.
No amount of advice will affect them, they are adults, they can figure it out.
If they [censored] up, oh well, it happens.

I don't think she is being unreasonable, she may have different morals and values then a lot of us but that doesn't make her unreasonable.
Not sure I could personally do it her way, but hey, different relationships make it work different ways.