[lostsoul]

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Do you have any long-term or short-term plans with all of this? Are you planning on eventually stopping, stopping at a specific point, continuing indefinitely?

What do you do to eliminate the chance of being killed or beaten by a jealous husband? I know you've mentioned a few things, like avoiding crazies and so on, but with hundreds of women, it seems like you've been lucky to dodge a bullet this long.

FWIW, I don't really care if your story is legit. It probably is, I have no reason to doubt you, but even if it isn't, there are many people who ARE like this, and your story seems extremely consistent with sexual addiction and all the literature I've read about this. I'm not in a position to call you a scumbag, and I wouldn't even if I were. I think you are hurting your wife, but I also think it is extremely unlikely she doesn't know about this, at least on some level. You are inevitably going to cause her suffering, but she is an adult, and that is for you to live with.

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I am not sure when or if I will ever stop. I have actually started slowing down alot the last few years. It use to be every night away on buisness I would be with a girl now I usually will go two or three trips without doing it.

If it is another married women we never go to each other's place. I usually try never to ask if they are married or not. I have had close calls a couple times but nothing to bad. I am usually pretty good at picking out the crazy's from the group so I avoid them at all costs. I guess u can say I am lucky for not getting caught. U would be suprised at the amount of work that goes into it. I am 99% sure my wife has no clue. If she does then she has made her piece with it.