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I think she's being pretty unreasonable. Engagement should be a pretty serious commitment and how is one to know if they should commit that seriously to each other without even living with each other first?

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Well they spend entire weekends together and sleep over almost every other night of the week. So in many ways they already are living together, or at least they are getting a feel for it.

I don't think she's being unreasonable. A lot of guys hold out on their girlfriends once they move in after having wrongfully used swift engagement as a carrot for the move-in. Locking down the ring prior to the move-in is actually a wise play for the girl, so long as she doesn't give an ultimatum on time. If he wants to wait a year or two before moving in, fine, but no move-in without a ring.

I don't think this is all that unreasonable personally.