Re: Pregnant GF
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I find it sad that you would break a friendship over not getting a car for free.
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It's not about the car. It's about the principle. A man's word is his bond. And a person who doesn't value his word is someone I don't want to be associated with.
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I think making a jump from "at the time she didn't realize how she would feel when she agreed to an abortion" to "she doesn't value her word" is a pretty big leap.
BTW, I am ardently pro-choice. I have no pro-life agenda when I say that the man is also responsible if a child results.
Regardless of whether you like it or not, regardless of "fairness", that baby doesn't exist if OP doesn't have sex with his GF. There is no agreement he can make beforehand to absolve himself of responsibility for it.
Life isn't fair. The sooner some of the posters in this thread figure that out, the happier the lives they will lead.
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