Re: Pregnant GF
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Folks saying the GF lied about or went back on her word about abortion and then using that to justify the OP abandoning her and his child are idiots. Like any life changing event, talking about what you are going to do in that situation without actually being in that situation isn't worth much. You just don't know how you are going to react until in the moment. So the GF didn't think she wanted a child and actively tried to avoid having one. Now she is pregnant and it turns out she wants it, totally standard. If she was luring OP into marriage or something by saying no kids while secretly not taking the pill or whatever that would change things, but changing her mind doesn't.
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Bull-[censored]. Your word is your bond in this world. She has the ability to keep her word to a person she supposedly loves and respects, and yet she is making a conscious decision not to. She has no right to expect any kind of support from a person she has wronged so badly.
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Dude, 20 Somethings talking about abortion while not pregnant is the same as people talking about if they could kill someone. Especially if they live in the burbs and all the crime they've seen is on CSI.
The biggest sign of adulthood is the ability to accept the consequences of your actions even when they are bad. People who can't do this are idiots and deserve nothing but scorn. Short version: If you aren't ready to be a daddy don't have sex.
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