Re: Pregnant GF
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Placing all the blame on OP when the gf seemingly stopped taking her birth control pills AND lied to him about getting an abortion, is equally despicable. I can't blame the OP if he leaves her behind.
I think it's clear that the OP was 90% was sure he wanted to be with her when he didn't think she was lying to him and trying to get him ensnared in a life that he does not want.
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So with no evidence whatsoever that the girl did anything wrong, you're going to condemn her?
You're 22. So am I, but you're showing just how naive you actually are with those comments.
1) The pill is, at BEST, 99% effective. Things still happen.
2) Had OP been smart enough to wrap it up understanding said small chance, this would have been even LESS of a potential problem.
3) The girl lied? Bulls***. Lying implies that it was never her intention. Not to mention, nowhere had it ever been SET that they would abort. Just the discussion had taken place.
The OP hasn't said much since he started this firestorm, but to the girl's credit, she's not trying to run away from a situation that is partially of her doing. OP is, and in my book, that makes him a coward.
He still hasn't responded with any good reason of what would be so bad about working a 9-to-5 for steady income and playing poker part time. He's a kid who has absolutely no "world view" because he thought being a small-time rounder was going to make him big. If he really ever loved this girl, he would stop being a whiny little pussy and accept his responsibility in this situation.
There should be no "blame" in this situation - because it was something both parties should have understood could happen. The girl is dealing with reality. OP is not.
OP's lack of actual feedback to these responses is pretty sad. Here's hoping it was real and not just some attempt to start a firestorm.
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