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OP, a few words of advice.

1) Take your girlfriend away for the weekend and have a major discussion. Tell her that you love her very much and would like to marry her one day and have kids with her when BOTH of you are ready. This wont happen today but will happen some day. So if she really loves you then she should abort the baby. When you are both settled in life then you will get married and make babies.

Then take her to a clinic at earliest appt. and get it done.
Chalk it up as a lesson learnt. If she listens to you and does this out of love for you, you got a keeper.

2) If plan 1) doesnt work, tell her that you are on your way out. She can choose to raise the baby on her own or give it up for adoption but its not your problem. All she can claim from you is 18 years of child support.

DONT LET YOUR GF HOLD YOU HOSTAGE from your dreams. All she can claim is child support and nothing more nothing less.

You made a terrible mistake of not using protection properly but you shouldnt have to pay for it for the next 20 or so years just for one night of mistake.

Best of luck on your journey.

p.s. Try to follow the these practices. You will have a safe, worry free sexual life for the rest of your life.
1) wear protection.
2) ALWAYS finish outside. People who say accidents happen, have no effin self control. If you are given a choice of 20 years of child support or a little less pleasure by finishing outside, its not really a choice. answer should be clear cut.