Thread: Pregnant GF
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Old 04-13-2007, 03:35 PM
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OP, have you tried making the case why she shouldn't have the kid? Talk to her about how miserable she will be waking up at all hours to feed it. Say that she will have trouble making ends meet for years. Without threatening her, say that you two might not be together for ever and that you won't necessarily be around to help raise the kid. Spend an hour thinking of the problems with this, write them down and talk to her about it.

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This is excellent advice, especially the part where you sit down and write things down so you have all the points you want to make neatly organized. You will likely have only one chance at this, so be prepared for the convo and do your homework in advance.

Now the only thing left to say is good luck!
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