Re: Pregnant GF
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I completely understand where the "man up" comments are coming from. I love this girl and we both got ourselves into this situation... But she did make it very clear to me from the beginning that she would get an abortion if the situation were to arise. If she were more honest about her desire to have children, I think the relationship would have ended long ago.
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She was being completely honest with you about planning to have an abortion. She had no clue what it would do to her physically and psychologically to get pregnant. Killing the life inside you goes against every biological instinct we've had for thousands of years.
You were both naive.
You say you love this woman and are 90% you were going to spend your life with her.
Love is not a feeling, it's an action.
To really love someone means to put their welfare in front of your own.
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