Re: Pregnant GF
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1) Do you want to spend your life with this girl?
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Completely undecided.
2 weeks ago my answer would have been about 90% yes.
Today I cant even estimate. I can already feel a lot of resentment boiling up due to the rest of my life being decided by her. I have not made any big decisions based on this, and will definitely need more time before I know.
Basically, if she decides to keep the baby, my choices are
A) Stay and change my entire life, and hate myself for giving everything up for something I didnt want in the first place.
B) Run away and hate myself for being a coward the rest of my life
Obviously not an easy decision to make
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2) If not, then how involved do you want to be with the upbringing of your kid?
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100% reliant on the answer to question 1
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Well, if she isn't up for an abortion then you are a father.
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She isnt completely closed off to the idea of an abortion right now. But she definitely is leaning toward keeping it. I'm sure she is more torn about the decision than I am.
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Now is the time to stop freaking out and make some life decisions. They will not get an easier once the baby arrives.
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A-[censored]-men
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