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Would love to learn more about neuro-linguistic programming, others?
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For useful skills in the real world, and self help, the best place is:
http://essential-skills.com/
Bruiser, the stuff Tom and Kim teach could also be of interest to you. The best self change method I have heard of. Pure gold. The other skills they teach can be applied to pickup, and poker too. Just about anything really.