[jaydub]

DDY,

There are some valid reasons to refuse to spot someone. As an example, I would prefer someone not comfortable performing the task (due to weight, unfamiliarity, etc) refuse than say yes out of fear of offense.

4 way stops. I'm more irritated by people who just sit and wait rather than go. We're all traveling like 2 miles an hour; if two of us happen to try to go at the same time, it'll work itself out.

J