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I literally took 3 min to respond to that, whether I was going to push for revenge sex or give up. As you can see, I chose the latter. I knew I had the "Let's go get drunk and you can tell me all about it" thing in the bag. However, she does live like 30-45 min away, a pretty decent minus, and I let that whole "conscience" crap get in the way, too. I didn't want to kick her while she's down: use her for sex as a response to venting to me about being used for sex, and then salting the wound by pointing her to OOT. I confess, I'm not OOT's ideal sadist. I humbly accept by berating.

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You realize that there is also a distinct non-zero chance that her whole story was a bunch of BS intended to get you to offer revenge sex? In fact, given how many times she left you a wide open opportunity to make a move, I wouldn't be surprised at all if this was the case.