show up with an already filled in application (found here)
http://www.richmondjaycees.org/Downl...pplication.pdf
put in her name as your sponsor, etc.
wear inappropriate clothes; say inappropriate things.
since she is nervous...she will be mortified that one of her first recruitment attempts has gone so awry and she will be embarassed in front of her peers.
find out when the next get together is etc.
if you can get her to deny your application and tell you on the spot that you aren't 'jaycee' material...you win