[bkholdem]

Get a list together of homeless shelters and food pantries, and things like that and give them to him. Be empathic and understanding but firm and unwavering. You have to go. I am your friend and care about you but you can't stay here, you have to go. Repeat, repeat. At some homeless shelters there are counselors, etc who can help him 'get set up' (i.e. counseling and direction towards getting a job or whatever). If he isn't out all day every day now pounding the pavement seeking employment and you suspect he is going to blow off court sounds like he plans on staying. So you are enabling him by letting him stay since he isn't following through in trying to get set up. At a shelter he will be more motivated.

If worse comes to worse you can change the locks or call the cops and lie and said he assaulted you but hopefully you can tactfully but firmly get him to leave, i really do recommend that you help him with a few phone numbers and addresses of homelsess shelters or what have you.