There Is Something More to This Story
Lots of Lessons to Be Learned Here:
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don't know why, I thought she would think it was funny and maybe I just needed to confess. HUGE MISTAKE.
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This was a insignificant event....and you should have kept your mouth shut. LEARN from this. It does not pay to confess to you woman. I knew a guy that cheated on his ex-Dallas Cowboy chearleader wife. He feels bad and confesses. So she goes out has a revenge screw on him. Then they get separated and she bangs more guys. They get back together and she makes his life miserable being a HUGE Beotch. Granted this is a lot different from your situation but the leasson is the same............SHUT YOUR ****ing MOUTH.
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I ask her why she's making such a big deal out of this and she gets even more pissed. She's like "Why are you telling me this is not a big deal!? Why are you saying my feelings don't matter!?"
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She hears you saying, 'you are not justified to feel that way'. Still she is over reacting. I wonder if she was planning to dump you and is using this as the excuse.....seriously. You said "So one night last week while my GF was out here visiting,". Does this mean you have an out-of-town GF? If so I bet she is screwing someone else, feels bad, and use this event as an excuse to make you the bad guy. It is the old, "blame someone else for what you are guilty of".
First make ONE SINCERE HEARTFELT APOLOGY...and then no more!!! If she does not accept it then date someone else. I'm in my 40s and I learned with women to get a woman that knows how to forgive. The ones that like to hold grudges will make your life miserable. Your girl strikes me as a beotch. But.....I'm only hearing your side of the story and perhaps you are leaving out some important details... There is more to this story either from your side or her side...
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