[Shrug]

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I'm dating this cute little Asian chick who just split up with her jackass husband and has 3 kids (2yo, 10yo and 16 yo(!). Husband is a degenerate gambler and she/he haven't even spoken to each other in about a year.........

.....She's leaving him next week and will have her own place.....

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These 2 sentences make no sense.
There is no way she could be living in the same house and not have spoken to him in a year.

I see MANY troubles ahead for you, my friend, if you even consider going this route.