[kidcolin]

so you're completely taking sex out of the equation. So if that's the case, what's my primary motive for not wanting to shower with a woman? I'm being honest here.

fwiw, I wouldn't be comfortable showering with women. With gay guys, for some reason I don't think it'd be a big deal. Only if someone was blatantly hitting on me, but that's really no different than the discomfort I feel when an ugly chick hits on me.

It's complicated, I think, and to broad stroke the issue and say someone's prejudiced just because they're uncomfortable being in naked company with a gay man is unreasonable.