[DrewDevil]

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Again, I ask this question, is it "ignorant" or "insane" for a woman to feel uncomfortable showering with heterosexual men?

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This analogy doesn't work and you should know better.

First of all, to make the proportions correct, it would be one heterosexual man showering with many women.

The scenario as you have phrased it... one woman showering with many men at once... well, it should be clear why most women would be uncomfortable with this. And it's different from the reasons why straight men would feel uncomfortable with one gay man in the shower.

FWIW I'm not a big fan of showering with other men, period. However, if it was a large group like a sports team and one or two of them were gay, I don't see that making me any less comfortable.

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I don't know better, maybe you can explain it to me.

Why is it ignorant, insane or unenlightened for a man not to want to shower with a gay man, but not so for a woman uncomfortable showering with a straight man? Why are they different?

I'm not sure what you're saying about a lot of men vs. one man in the shower, either.