Re: Girl I\'m dating suddenly has a boyfriend - what\'s my play?
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Cliff Notes: I'm dating a girl, she casually mentions that she now has a boyfriend, but still wants to go out with me.
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Perhaps she wants a steady boyfriend who she can see on a regular basis. Evidently with your traveling you don't fulfill the second part of what she wants. Her motives are either:
1. She is using you as a backup....or
2. She is using you to feed her ego that she is attractive to men....or
3. She digs you but is unsure because you have not been direct with her what your intentions are. She had another guy who showed interests so she took the bird in the hand.
You are probably as confusing to her as she is to you. Your play is easy; pursue other girls. If you want to see her as friends then go ahead.
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