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How's this for an opener? I'm working on being more myself

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"I'm just a girl who's learned more in life than I ever thought possible. I'm learning to live in the moment. Not for tomorrow, not for yesterday...but for today...in this very instance. I don't know where life is leading me at this point, but I do know im going to follow my heart."

is sort of cliche don't you think?

anyways what's up?



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ok I got a response back from this one. I'm going with an approach based on confronting her BS, to see how that works.



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wouldn't everyone say pretty much the same thing though? Plus nobody lives for the moment truly, to do so would mean living your life with no thought what so ever about the future, you couldn't save, eat healthy, you get the idea.

This is what I mean by cliche it sounds good and everyone is going to say that in one way or another. How does one even really live for tomorrow or yesterday? They can't. But nobody is able to live their life as if future desires/worries and past events have no effect on them. It's not human, starfish and sea cucumbers live for the moment not people. right?

I'm not trying to give you [censored] but it just seems like your trying to say something profound but in reality your not saying much of anything about yourself at all.

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From: Jen
Date: Dec 12, 2005 9:12 AM

It wouldn't be cliche if you knew me






interestingly my approach seems to be working. Now to show her that I can relate a bit

her last reply

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I get where your coming from, but I don't mean that I will never worry about tomorrow, but rather I will start living more for the present. I had a terrible thing happen in my life and I lost someone very close to me, so it has been hard not feeling helpless about the future and missing the past, but like I said...I am "learning" not to live for the past or future but rather to be thankful for what I have today. I know that everyone may say something like this, but it's more for the people who know what i've been through I guess.



I'm thinking i'm cold and hard on the outside but with a kind heart for this girl.

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Although I really like angle, I'd be a little extra careful about not ending up in the "friend zone" using this approach.

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