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(4) Contrary to what many think, employers understand that people make mistakes in deciding upon their first job. Indeed, the vast majority of lawyers end up seeking a new position within a few years. I have difficulty imaginging a scenario where one's initial job choice (in law) amounts to a permanent mistake.

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The above poster/post makes a good point. Also, I think that this is a sensitive issue that the spouses should work out between themselves. No offense to the OP, but I believe there are serious communication problems in this marriage if the OP is so heavily involved in the discussion.