Re: \"He has to like her more\"
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I like it when the person is more in love with me because I'm a bit of a control freak and somewhat chickensh*t when it comes to relationships. I like that edge to be tiny, though, it gets super-boring if the difference is more than a little.
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Yeah, it's a tough balance, isn't it? That's the main problem I've found with Italian chicks, they tend to super-worship you. And I immediately get super-bored.
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In answering the hypothetical - I would personally choose to be more into the chick - part of it is because I'd get bored if she's more into me (I've noticed for myself the discrepancy doesn't have to be that great for boredom to set in). Also the idea that I'm with someone who is so amazing, I'm ok with this dynamic.
Practically speaking though, I think it makes more sense to afford yourself more control.
I've always had good balance in my relationships - though it ebbed and flowed alot, the power dyanamic. My guess is that's true for most relationships.
-Al
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