[The Truth]

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i think the best, and easiest way to go is to send the most basic, simple message possible if cold-messaging someone.

the reason is, if that person looks at your profile and considers you attractive, then they will get back to you despite your simple email.

now that you know they are slighly interested, then you can attempt to be witty/funny/interesting.

this way you get to put out minimal initial effort, and if responded to, you know it is because of something other than your oh-so-clever message.

then again maybe my viewpoint is skewed, and most of you guys actually do need to try hard to differentiate yourselves and be "INTRIGUEING GUY".

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Na, we are more of this line of thought... We don't care if she really likes us or not. We want to have the ability to bang every girl we see on the net or else where.
In order to do this, we must hook them all from the start with words. Every girl isn't going to like our profile, no matter how perfect it is, too many types of girls. 1 line isn't going to work on all girls.

So, and interesting/ "INTRIGUEING GUY" opener is only way to get to our goal.

Different goals, different methods. You just got to determine what you want.

Profile thing is interesting though.
What qualities do we need to include/exclude?

I am thinking we need to make it very bare bones, since a wide range of perspective girls are going to be reading it.

We don't want to intially push anyone away, and we can rely on our ability to talk our way through the being attractive to her part.

I am thinking even where we are/ what we are doing in our picture is key. I am doing research. I'll let people know results who are interested.

blake