[The Truth]

I may have been a bit harsh earlier.

let me do an analysis.

The good:

1. You won't piss her off.
2. You probably wont scare her.
3. You expressed interest in her (so you made your point).
4. You got her attention.
5. You were funny (or tried to be, which is often enough)


Some of those may overlap, but i'm tired.

The bad:

1. You really did come off like a little bitch. Girls don't want to date little bitches.

2. This means you are likely to end up in friend zone.

3. You complimented her (which I think is a bad idea in an opener. We'll discuss it in opener theory later)

4. You failed to differentiate yourself from other guys. She sees you as the standard, no date getting loser on the internet. No flare.

5. You take no steps to develop her attraction towards you (besides being nonpushy which is good)

6. You don't seem like a challenge, nor do you establish any kind of self value.

blake