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I dont think everyone should be so hard on OP for dating this skank for 4 years. Most peoples first real relationship goes on for waaaaaaay to long. She prolly wasnt too bad to look at when she had a nice little high school body. But she got fat, they dated forever cuz thats what young people do cuz they dont know any better, and it just took OP a longer time than normal to reach the point where he knows they shouldnt be together. Thats life.

OP, really the only thing you need to focus on is NOT getting back together with this chick, even if its just for sex. Which while I know you think that sounds retarded, It's likely going to happen. Cut off all contact with her, even tho youll have the urge to tell her how awful she is and let her know every wrong thing she ever did, and try and get her to tell you how right you are and how shes so awful blah blah blah. Trust me, just save yourself from all this and once she gets her [censored] outta your place, pretend shes dead and go out right away and find some new chick to bang for a while.