[nature\\\'s_hated]

Just starting to read the ladder theory... am pretty drunk as have been at strip club - nice bump and grind dances from hot short-haired Hungarian girl, funny how easy my body finds it to respond when I'm paying, yet how timid I am with real girls who might reject me. Anyway, this bit grabbed my attention straight away and seems very true for this girl:

"If they are not cool then they are probably just attractive and why would i want to hang out with them if they won't sleep with me? If they are cool then the desire to sleep with them will only intensify the more I hang out with them so I am really only torturing myself emotionally to hang out with them and pretend that that is all I want. Why would I or any guy want to put himself through that?"