Re: Unrequited love - what to do?
Please get some help.
She is isn't the problem.
Realize that you don't love her. You are obsessed with her. You have lust. You have the crazy notion that gaining her love would heal you and in some way make you happy. Its not going to happen. You only want her so much because you can't have her. She won't be attracted to you because she can have you so easily.
Telling her how you feel isn't going to help anything. You can't guilt her into loving you. You can't reason with her. If you tell her, you will be even more creepy to her and she will lose whatever little respect or affection she has for you
What you should do is cut her out of your life. Don't call her. Don't answer her phone calls. Also, don't do the same thing with new girls that you meet. There are millions of girls. Stop it already.
You are like those guys who won't raise pocket aces before the flop because they always lose with them.
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