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Yes, that's what I thought too. When she's single, as she definitely was back then, she's happy to kill a bit of time with me. But let's say she found a boyfriend some time after that and she doesn't want to see me any more. Firstly because she'd rather spend time getting banged by him, secondly because she doesn't want any awkward conversations with me. This would also explain her not wanting me to be around her on new year's eve.

But the invites from me she ignored came in the week after I'd seen her mid-November, so she wouldn't really have had time to meet anyone, and I got a round-robin email from her early December saying she was going on holiday to Cuba. So it's possible, but just as possible she's still single, not that that affects me in any way.

I think she might have some screwy problems of her own - why has she only had 3-6 month relationships? Successful young doctors in my experience (and my brother is one) once they're out of med school tend to have long-term relationships, get engaged, and get married.

I remember her telling me some doctor friends of hers had invited her to go with them to a strip club, and she'd been really upset and started crying. She thought it was really offensive for them to go there ogling women, viewing them as pieces of meat, and for her to feel they were looking at her in the same way.

I said "Erm, well, you know there are some guys who just can't get laid and are so desperate that going to strip clubs is the only way they get to see naked ladies." Pretty obviously talking about myself, heh.

So I'm not sure if she is sexually liberal, taking sex where and when she finds it, and I just don't measure up, or if she's screwed up about it herself.

She once kind of implied she was a lesbian, by the way, or at least that's how I understood it. So for a while, she thought I was gay and I thought she was a lezzer. But later she said she wasn't attracted to girls, had only been with guys, etc, and I thought no more of it.



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It's a legitimate question, isn't it? If she's so shocked and horrified to find out I still like her, she cuts me loose straight after I tell her. Not after we meet another time and show we still can have fun together.

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Ok, I'll give you a more legitimate answer.

She found someone to screw. Women fall off the planet all the time in this situation, especially when you aren't the best of friends. - OR - Have you ever thought something went fairly well to find out in the other person's mind that it was a trainwreck?

Two perfectly logical possibilities - even thought logic has no place in OOT.

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