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she blows up about how she had to pay for her meals in San Fran. I almost shot myself in the face.

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A female friend of mine was basically bragging about doing a similar thing. She says that women keep a "list" of things their boyfriend does and they save it for fights.

Her example was that her BF did something when they first started dating (it was something minor, like the BF was telling one of his friends that some other woman was cute, but he said it within earshot of the GF). Months later, they get into a fight over something else, and she brings out what he did. Of course, he has no recollection of ever saying that some random woman he saw 6 months previously was cute, so she gets the upper hand in the argument.

She tells me this story and I say to her that she's insane, but she says all of her friends have a "list" that they save for appropriate moments.

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I just wish we men could collectively get together and stop falling for this [censored]. If a woman dredges up something from six months ago in an argument, just throw it back in her face. "What does that have to do with anything? And so what if I find another woman cute? Do you think you're the only good looking woman on earth? Get out of my car." etc.

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'Cause we're men. We try to win arguments. It's what we do.

If you truly don't give a [censored], don't say anything at all. It will completely drive the woman up the wall batshit insane. Trust me on this.

THEY HATE THE SILENT TREATMENT.