Re: My son wants to get laid
I guess it all depends on whether you believe pre-martial sex is wrong and what values you want to pass on to your son. Those are your choices. I'm not saying that he won't do his own thing either way, but many parents like to at least attempt to pass on their values/morals to their children. You, however, might not find pre-marital sex wrong or unwise.
The thing I would consider is that even if you feel it's ok, her parents obviously don't and by you doing anything to help out "the cause", like allowing closed doors, buying him condoms etc, could really cause some hot water for your son and the girlfriend with her folks. If they think that you are helping, encouraging, or even just allowing something like this to go on, they could very easily get very upset and forbid the girl from seeing your son. Granted this doesn't mean it will stop them, but it just makes the situation much harder and puts you and your wife in a very odd situation with her parents.
Just my 2 cents. I've seen that exact scenario play out and it was ugly and lasted for years.
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