[Jive Dadson]

Ignoring and peacocking are not mutually exclusive.

I learned a lesson in peacocking once. I friend was having a wedding reception (his second of three). The tongue-in-cheek invite said gentlemen should wear a tux or a hawaiian shirt. I opted for both. I wore the tux, complete with black tie, and a garrish red-orange hawaiian shirt. A surprising number of women there discovered they really, really needed a ride home. I chose a real nice one. Never wore the outfit again, though, so maybe I didn't really learn all that much.