[wmonfor]

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Has the guy just abandoned her? Any idea what he wants to do? Is he taking any responsibility here?

What you are doing is being a stand up friend and that is what you should continue to do. Be there for her.

More info about the father-to-be would be helpful....

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Thanks, I'm trying to do the best I can.

As far as the father-to-be goes, I don't really have that much information. I do know that he is 23, lives with his grandma, works at ABC Warehouse and doesn't go to school. He also doesn't have a car or a cell phone, so he uses her car and cell phone like they are communal property.

I don't know if he is a good guy or not, but I have nagging doubts that he is not going to be an attentive father. Like I said, if she does decide to keep the baby, she should be prepared for the possibility that she will be the only one raising it and paying for it's needs.