Re: Confusing situation involving a pregnant friend
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Putting the baby up for adoption is the clear winner here. Sometimes it's not about what's convenient, but what's right. She and her boyfriend made a mistake and it's their adult responsibility to deal with it. Killing the kid is a cop out and a sleazy way to deal with a mistake they made. Give someone who's looking for a child a chance to raise a child and give her baby a chance to live. An abortion is nothing but pure selfishness and poor character, to put it nicely.
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Wow. It wouldn't take a rocket scientist to see where you're wrong here...But let's not get into the bs.
OP: Let me get this straight, you've:
1. Demanded that she share her personal problem with you
2. Reminded her that she could get an abortion.
3. Sent her the link to that preggo workbook thing.
4. Offered your help if she wants to go to the doctor for any reason..
Sounds like you've covered it. Also, maybe you should consider that she really really doesn't want her ex's help when she's pregnant with another guys baby. You've told her what you think, now back off.
--GA
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