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Old 10-05-2006, 10:51 PM
gamblore99 gamblore99 is offline
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Default Re: Confusing situation involving a pregnant friend

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Cliff Notes: Girl I used to date for 2 years got pregnant by her new boyfriend, do I suggest abortion or leave her to make an uninformed decision in an unbalanced emotional state?

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Boy you really think highly of her don't you? Obviously, she will never make a good choice without your help.

It's none of your buisiness. Stay out of it and let her make a deciscion without everyone else, including you, trying to force their will on her. It's her choice.

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esad, this might be the best idea, but this is probably not the case. She may well want to have an abortion but feel pressured by her parents/guy/other people to do what she feels is best. Aborted fetus' can't talk, so someone has to do the talking for them.

edit to add: maybe she willl resent OP if she does abort, but if OP really cares about her, and thinks this will seriously [censored] up her future than its probably worth it. Also, if she does have this baby OP and her will probably not remain great friends down the road anyways.
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