[Dave G.]

I'm mostly looking for a happy, cute / attractive, feminine girl. The last point is very important - I want a girl who isn't ashamed of being a girl, and who accepts the female role in the relationship.

Yes, this means she takes care of the house for me and generally takes care of me. When you say this to people, they think you're some kind of chauvanistic slob (which is why I don't date western girls - more below [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]). I am far from that, I take great care of the girls I am with, and I understand that I have my own role and my own duties to fulfil as the male. I see two complementary roles being played here, and that's the way I think it works best.

These days, I don't even consider dating a white / western girl. Most of them are too busy trying to prove they are equal to or better than men. They constantly struggle with it, though they don't seem to mind accepting the "positives" of being female, they just don't want the negatives. As a result, they become stuckup, competitive and bitchy, as they try and turn ridiculously stupid situations into civil rights movements.

I realise this isn't true for ALL white women. I know there are some good ones. My argument is based on probability. I'm much more likely to meet one of these bossy nags if I date white women than if I date asian women (asian are my favourite).

Asian women on the other hand are very feminine for the most part. They are proud of being girls, they don't mind being vulnerable, and they accept that they are emotional creatures and that they need support from time to time. They will take good care of me, because I provide that support, and we complement what we do for each other.

In the end... why am I going to choose to spend my time with a woman who brings stress into my life rather than one who alleviates it? Sure, western women have more rights, and more power these days, more independence... that's great. If that's what they want in life, I'm all for it. These women need to understand, though, that most guys are going to be attracted to feminine characteristics, and when they constantly struggle and compete with the men, they lose that femininity, and thus, they lose their chances of alluring many, many men. Sadly, they'll forever wonder why men just don't pay attention to them anymore.

(There are a number of generalisations in this post. I realise this. They do not apply to 100% of the population. In my opinion, they apply to a majority.)