Re: My Wife\'s New \"Buddy\"
Funny how theory and practice can't always be the same. In theory, you go to your wife, and say, "Wife, this is unacceptable. This must stop." But in practice, that doesn't work so well. Wife starts saying things like, "No." In theory women like strong men who set firm rules. In practice, "you're a control freak. I can have friends."
But the truth of the matter is, your wife is looking for an emotional connection from another man. Biologically, (societally?) we can really only have one of these (of the opposite sex). Dom's views on m/f friendships are, sadly, correct. Doesn't even have to be a conscious acknowledgement of the desire to have sex. Give your wife more attention. Be interested in her as a person. Not just about touching her more. Whatever. GL, bro.
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