Be Angry......In a Calm Way.
This is not acceptable or proper behaviour for a married person - man or woman - to be doing. It is incredibly inappropriate, and puts you in a no-win situation: if you object, you're an insecure, jealous husband. If you do nothing about it, you're a pussy.
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Don't act jealous or insecure - act outraged and rightfully indignant. She is in the wrong - completely - and needs to be told that.
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You need to angry in a CALM way. No yelling. Be VERY firm. Tell her she is acting like a SINGLE women. If she wants to be single then she should grow a pair of balls and be upfront with you. You DESERVE HER TO BE UPFRONT WITH YOU. If she wants to be married then she needs to start acting like a married women. If she is not happy with the marriage, then should needs to be upfront with you. YOU DESERVE THIS. Tell her if your going to be married, then you need to trust her 100%, if you can't trust her, then WE have major marrietal problems and you're putting me in a tough position where I need to make decisions I really don't want to make.
Women can be expert bullshitters. Use the "broken record" technique".
If she denies she is acting like a single woman, listen and say "I heard you, I understand your positon, now understand this, you are actinf like a single woman, and I don't like this." Keep repeating this same mantra no matter what bullshit she says.
Keep telling her, I DESERVE ***YOU*** to be upfront with me.
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