Re: My Wife\'s New \"Buddy\"
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Yeah, I think this about sums it up.
She called back very upset. We talked about it and of course I withdrew my demand to see the email.
A quote: I don't want to be in the kind of relationship where my husband demands to read my email!
Ugh. Well, we worked out a sort of comprimise. She told me in detail the kinds of things that they talk about and aknowledged that I have a right to feel uncomfortable. In the end, if I can't trust her, I might as well dump her because I can't follow her around or install spyware to keep tabs on her. If she wants to cyber with fat guys in Sweden, so be it. [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]
It's not like I don't keep things from her, but in the end, she can trust me with the big stuff: No screwing around, no gambling away all our money, etc. So I should believe the same of her.
Dom's (and many others) advice was sound, but I need to figure out a smooth way to implement it. I'm not so good at confrontation.
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I don't mean to be rude - but you seem like a pussy
somehow your wife comes out ahead after talking to you about something she knows would (and should) piss you off - you've gotta learn to deal with this stuff
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