Re: My Wife\'s New \"Buddy\"
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I don't want to be in the kind of relationship where my husband demands to read my email!
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This was, unfortunately, predictable.
Here's my take on it. You've got a marriage/relationship problem here.
The good news is, It's not about this guy she's emailing. He's just the symptom.
The bad news is, The problem's been there for awhile now. Communication, trust, intimacy, partnership, any/all/more of these.
I'd suggest that you work hard to separate these two things...and try to focus on the real problems. Don't let her make this about to be about "your hangup with her geek-internet-friend"...that's just the surface issue. What this is really about is what others have already said...why was she doing this in the first place? Why did she wait a month or more to tell you, and why is she telling you now, anyway?
You don't really know the answer to these questions, and that's part of the problem.
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