[Patrick del Poker Grande]

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she is reluctant to show you emails exchanged between her and another man? yeah, listen to mr. trik he gives sound advice.

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Wife was comfortable enough with the situation to inform the husband.
Husband displayed mild jealousy and suspicion, an understandable initial reaction.
Husband came to OOT, received wildly divergent suggestions.
Wife called, Husband acted even more jealous and suspicious.
Wife displayed negative reaction to this.
Wife will no longer be comfortable telling husband about online connections again.

This is bad.

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It's like when you're house-training a dog. If they take a dump and you don't catch him in the act, but you shove his face in it and yell at him later, then next time he's just going to take a dump behind the couch where he thinks you won't find it.