[Miggo]

I'm a married guy, longer than you though, but if my wife did this I don't know how I'd react either. I'd probably feel about as bad as someone who calls an all-in bet with the second nut flush.

I don't see anything wrong with having male friends, even ex boyfriends, plutonic relationships of course. The main problem that I see, and I think you see too, is ... What the hell is she doing emailing guys she's meeting on the internet.

To be honest, I think you have to squeeze an answer to that question out of her. Once you get an honest answer for that, and go on a weekend sex retreat together or something, and start making her the center of your life for awhile then you guys can get back to normal. Sorry to be brash (sp), just my 2 cents.