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Old 10-28-2005, 04:03 PM
Phoenix1010 Phoenix1010 is offline
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Default Re: My Wife\'s New \"Buddy\"

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Thanks Mr.T,
I appreciate your viewpoint since I tend to agree with you and can see myself giving the same advice to others.

However, now that I'm in it, I find myself agreeing with Dom. For whatever reason, I hate this relationship and she should respect that.

Still, doesn't anyone else think this might drive her away further. Maybe I'm just being a pussy...

**UPDATE
While writing this post she called and I told her that I wanted to see the email he's been writing her. She got really bummed and said really? I said I knew I was being unreasonable and she said yeah you are. Damn!

Now I'm wondering whether the whole thing is some kind of game she's playing (probably subconciously because she's usually not that much of a bitch) where she's testing to see how badly I'll overreact to this innocent thing. I don't know...this sucks.

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No. Do not read the E-mail, no matter how much better it will make you feel. Show her that you trust her and do not make her feel like you're paranoid. She deserves to have her privacy repsected. Apologizing for demanding to read the E-mails will be a good start.
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