Re: And another thing....
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"Well, it's my right to go out wih my buddies on the weekend and party - I'm not cheating, I'm not doing anything wrong."
No, you're not - except you're hurting your wife's feelings by not spending time with her. Your wife's feelings COMES FIRST. Period.
It doesn't matter that what you're doing is "not wrong," it's still hurting your wife. Address that! Come to a compromise!
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I think you're a little strong on this one, Dom. The compromise part is the key here. If you just let her demand you stay home all the time, then you're the one getting hurt. You can't just let her demand you stay home all the time either. You have to strike a balance. Give each other space and time to do things apart, but also do plenty together. If you can find the balance no one's feelings should get hurt.
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